It’s important to take into account everyone’s feelings when choosing a ceremony guest checklist because it’s one of the most intimate decisions to make. The final list between you and your partner is typically best to keep in mind, but if you do, make sure to let your friends know that it is n’t predetermined and that they will be invited to your wedding if they want to attend.

Top of your list should be your close family and chosen friends because these are the people you simply could not imagine saying” I do” without. You may choose to invite their kids or companions depending on your relationship with them and the size of your wedding.

Any family members with whom you have a close partnership, quite as aunts and uncles, should be next on your list. For instance, some couples prefer to involve their primary cousins, while another think it’s appropriate to leave them alone. The decorum lines between distant family can be difficult, and they can become confusing. If there is n’t a particularly close and lasting relationship, it’s not necessary to invite any second cousins who have equal family ties to you.

Then you should move on to your coworkers and companions, including those who are one and those who are romantically involved. You and your spouse really talk about whether you want these visitors to deliver a plus-one.